Silent Treatment Toh Badt

     One of the greatest trait I love about the 'male folk' is their FORGIVING SPIRIT. Guys don't take things too personal at all, they easily forget things. They could argue from now till eternity, brag, throw really serious tantrums, insult themselves with the most horrible of words, threaten to fight, punch, slap, stab or even kill, play some really rough / dangerous plays . Then in extreme cases get involved in heated arguments that ends in combat, breaking bottles and all what not

     After all these plenty episodes I just enumerated #NowSweating, the next thing, you see them playing around again. I mean but dude this guy just insulted and fought with you some three minutes back!

     This rather angelic, sweet, babyish' spirit in one word is BEAUTIFULL. Damn! Such simple way to live life!

#whew
     Ladies on the other hand, hahahaha are a handful. I mean something as simple as 'stand up! So you will not stand up ehn! Abi? Can cause enmity for 3yrs #haba! Buahahahahaha

     And the attitude starts from a very young age I should say. I could even say from birth but for the very few ladies that don't exhibit this BAD CHARACTER (yea people like Pee) so I dare say it's learned and the DEVIL is the teacher.

     You find a 10year old keeping malice with her mother, her brothers, classmates and the most annoying part is the reason for it...downright petty trivial stuff #SMH

     When children and teenager do this, one can to some extent understand #they are still young and growing; but when grown ups practice same, it's very pathetic and some of this perpetrators are 'supposed matured christians'

     One is left to wonder what sorta maturity they have (both spiritually and physically). BIG BABIES I call such. You are suppose to outgrow somethings yea?

    It always starts with 'silent treatment' which by the way I hate with every fiber of my being. Girls ooo stop it oo. There's a huge difference between 'quiet moments' and 'silent treatment' so don't deceive yourself by saying ' I just don't feel like talking to her'

   But mehn! Some ladies are profs, others have doctorates, some upcoming, while some others are students/ newbies. The profs can literally live in the same house/ room with you and not look at you at all. Silent treatment toh badt. And they always say 'I'm not keeping malice o'
Yeah Right!

     But come on! This is devilish if you ask me. Such a person can kill #StraightFace

Then when a prof clashes with a doctorate holder! Oh Boy! 'Na long things o' forever things #hahahaha Na only Jesus Christ fit salvage this type.

    But why on earth will one decide to carry such load within them? Pride? Low self Esteem? Demonic possession? #IDunno #You tell me. Beefing' someone whose enjoying their life while you are carrying weights around...you go just die before for time o. mtcheew!

Piece of Advice
     Politely confront people when you feel they knowingly or unknowingly offend you. Don't bottle it all up inside. Help yourself or don't you value your 'inner peace?

Dont always take things personal. Make excuses for people at times especially your friends, give people the benefit of the doubt. Convert otherwise serious issues into jokes and still pass your message across playfully; no one gets hurt that way. Grow bigger than quarrels, try to understand the people around you, get to know them, that way it's easier to over look the errors they make once in a while.

     And for those that have this trait DEEPLY ROOTED in them, you know yourself, you can stay for 2years keeping malice/ strife; take it to God in prayers, ask him to help you kill the devilish trait because this singular BAD HABIT can smear every other beautiful thing about you as it is a VERY BAD CHARACTER.

NB: Synonyms for Malice; ill will, wickedness, Evilness
Synonym for strife; conflict, contention, discord
.....Not good words at all....so you might wanna CHANGE

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