Ok, its almost as if EVERYONE 'is having/ had/ just recovered from/ almost having' relationship problems'. There's either this issue or that issue.
Have we entered a phase that it's almost impossible to have 'near perfect' relationships? Will this improve with time or will it get worse #NowThat'sScary
Our fathers and fore-fathers did pretty well compared to what we see these days I should say. There were very few cases of broken relationships/ failed marriages and to think that they had 'arranged marriages' mostly, with little or no time to court. Wow!
It will surprise you to know that even those putting up 'good shows' of blissful relationships/ marriages are not left out of this 'wahala'. Deep down they are hurting like everyone else but decide to put up a front, well, for reasons best known to them.
But what if we had blissful relationships?
What if everyday could be lovers 'fun day'?
What if he/she could just be the way you want him/her to be?
What is there was no hurt or pain?
What if his/her love doesn't change ever?
What if we could all be happy?
Can there really be a relationship void of Quarrels, Pride, Nagging, Unfaithfulness, Assault, Lack of Communication, Selfishness, Insensitivity, Oppression, Insecurity, Assumptions, Overt Control, Jealousy, Trust Issues....?
Is Utopia in relationships/ marriages possible?
Please leave your comments, I need to hear your views, suggestions and answers to these questions. Thanks
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Okay, people who have ever been in relationships know that there will always be knotty issues, and any attempt to 'keep things in' amounts to pretence, which isn't very good for the life of a relationship. I mean, even as friends we can't get away from intermittent clash of opinion and interest. So no, there's no utopia in a relationship; there's only mutual understanding backed with love and trust, and these will always surmount he naggng issues that come up time and again. Just a word of advice, readers: if you don't like the person anymore, then walk off while you still can! I'm available for the girls...#winks #grins
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DeleteIssues ll always arise...it's normal
ReplyDeleteYeah !!But there are some that don't need to arise at all.Sometimes there are little things couples take for granted which are the very things that make a home.
ReplyDeleteLadies today are damn too distracted.A responsible guy with vision who knows what he wants from life will only naturally flee.So pls ladies be wise and learn to grow your hearts and love not romance.
ReplyDeleteMmmmmm, personally one should be free, open and not do or die affair to avoid being hurt.
ReplyDeleteGuys be wise o...A woman with d wrong mindset can ruin a man forever and vice veesa.
ReplyDeleteWhere u're accepted and celebrated not where u're only tolerated and endured. Enter rships that boost your self worth and self esteem. Rships that add value to you. Go into rships that u share core values but might differ on values that are not core to you both. E.g if my core value is going to church every sunday to fellowship with my God, it'll be difficult to co -habit with someone who goes to church occasional bcos that's not core to him/her. So one partner in that rship wud suffer grossly. (My little contribution)
ReplyDeleteLove mata na serious mata o
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